The recently appointed U.S. ambassador to Greece, Kimberly Ann Guilfoyle, shares personal insights from her life in her newly released autobiography, published in Greek by Kaktos Publications.
Protothema.gr features two additional excerpts from her book, “Win Every Battle: How to Stand Up for Yourself.”
In one passage, Guilfoyle emphasizes the significance of dressing intentionally, noting that her fashion choices are always purposefully aligned with conveying a specific message.
“I maintained a simple and polished appearance to avoid alienating anyone or distracting from the message I wanted to communicate. I viewed myself as a guide, not the center of attention,” she reflects, also sharing her personal motto, which she wore on a T-shirt frequently.
The second excerpt reveals Guilfoyle’s thoughts on her two divorces, expressing appreciation for the cooperative co-parenting relationship she established with her son’s father.
“It saddens me how often ego and arrogance hinder this process for some families. Such behavior can be truly harmful and dangerous for children,” she states.
Excerpt 1: The Importance of Appearance
“In high school, I worked at a Clothestime store to build my wardrobe and save for college. I witnessed people connect emotionally to particular clothing pieces, seeing them as reflections of their identities. I was no exception; I had a favorite T-shirt I wore daily that encapsulated one of my core principles. It read ‘I plan’ across the chest, followed by ‘the’ and ‘future.’ This phrase, ‘I plan the future,’ became my guiding motto. I couldn’t help but wear that shirt constantly, eager to pull it from the wash. Even now, I wish I could wear it again. I’ve always been driven by the question: ‘What’s my next challenge? How do I succeed?’ That shirt embodied my mindset.”
“I recognized the importance of this message when I became a prosecutor and needed to dress appropriately for court. From my early experiences, I learned to conduct myself with professionalism. In every case trial, I wore a clean, well-fitted, and modest suit. I styled my hair in a French twist to keep it away from my face, opting for minimal or no makeup and little to no jewelry. I avoided bold, low-rise, or overly short attire. I aimed for a simple and polished look to ensure I didn’t distance anyone or distract from the message I was conveying. I wanted my respect for the court to be evident.”
Excerpt 2: Navigating Divorce Constructively
“I feel fortunate that both of my divorces were amicable. I’m especially grateful that, when my son’s father and I separated, we committed to ensuring our son felt loved and secure. We sought to pursue equal co-parenting from the outset, recognizing the value each of us brought to his life.”
“It’s disheartening how often ego and arrogance disrupt this process for families. Such behavior can be harmful and dangerous for children. While I understand how traumatic divorce can be, no child should have to suffer simply because their parents can’t coexist or act like adults during encounters, except in cases where a child’s safety is genuinely at stake.”
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